I couldn't remember much of what I wrote, and I should have notepadded it. Damn headache.
I'm glad you're letting it unfold and seeing where it leads. He shouldn't get over it quickly since it encompasses a lifelong process of learned behavior, his own tendencies and experiences that have had a cumulative effect. Then for him to still be an outsider of sorts that no one really knows or knows how to approach since they don't really claim ownership of him the way they would with someone who had always been with them just complicates it. Too many unknowns.
Cold getting a little better. Surgery tomorrow on arm. Tons of fun.
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Date: 2006-03-01 10:38 pm (UTC)I'm glad you're letting it unfold and seeing where it leads. He shouldn't get over it quickly since it encompasses a lifelong process of learned behavior, his own tendencies and experiences that have had a cumulative effect. Then for him to still be an outsider of sorts that no one really knows or knows how to approach since they don't really claim ownership of him the way they would with someone who had always been with them just complicates it. Too many unknowns.
Cold getting a little better. Surgery tomorrow on arm. Tons of fun.